Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽｀*)
It's been 5 years and XNUMX months since I started working as a father.
I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.
To be more precise, I turned 37 this year (°▽°)
I've met a lot of people through Papakatsu.There are about XNUMX people in total.
We've covered dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money.
I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.
I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.
Before I started working as a dad, I worked at night as a hostess in Ginza for about seven years in total.
I worked as a hostess in Ginza from the age of 23 to 28 (there was a time when I wasn't in Japan for about two years as a backpacker or on a working holiday).
And I have been working as a father since I was around 34 years old until I am currently 37 years old (*´▽｀*)
The reason I started working as a father was that my mental health suffered and I fell ill.
I started having panic attacks on crowded trains in the morning and couldn't go to work, so I started doing this to earn a living (´-`)
I'm sure there are many reasons why people become fathers, such as people like me who do it for a living, to earn money for school fees, to pay off debts, to pay for a relative's medical treatment, etc.
I got the impression that there were many people who said that they would be in trouble if they didn't have money right now in order to survive.
I'm currently living overseas, so I meet my dad and friends when I return to Japan.
The frequency is about once every 3 to 6 months, so I'm not really active as a dad right now, but I've come into contact with a lot of men due to my job, so
I would like to write with that in mind (*'▽'*)
My dream was to live abroad.
In fact, the reason I was able to live my dream overseas was because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that I could complete online.
Thanks to that, I can now work from anywhere in the world (o^^o)
It's thanks to Dad-katsu that I was able to live the life of my dreams! ! (*^^)v
Dad's activities are various ♪
Well, today's theme is ``Timing for negotiating a daddy contract.''
It's fine to meet, but you may wonder how many times you should decide on the amount, frequency, and content.
If you make a mistake here, you will lose contact with your father.
No matter how many times we meet, we have to talk about our decisions.I'm drawn to food aloneSome dads think so.
Because in fact, there are women who are pulling for food alone.
Daddy life basically comes with physical relationships.
On rare occasions, there are dads who say, ``I don't mind just eating,'' but after I meet them a few times, some dads say, ``I've changed my mind, so let's go to a hotel.''
I get the impression that there were many dads who were concerned about morals and only wanted food at first, but after the second time they asked for a physical relationship (;'∀')
back to the topicThe first thing you should not do is to negotiate when you first meet! ! !
This is one of the reasons why I don't make the most progress when I listen to my dad's stories.
I tend to think that it would be more reasonable to meet the conditions at the first meeting, and there would be no need to meet multiple times.
This makes men feel quite cold, timid, and withdrawn (;∀;)
Although there are some reasonable fathers, the conditions for such fathers were often quite poor.
A decent father chooses his partner carefully.
Are there multiple dads? Are the hours you spend meeting administrative? Are you not calculating your hourly wage for the hours you meet?
Dads also judge women.
If it's too early or too late, it's difficult to season it (T_T)
If you follow the steps I recommend,It's the safest option, you can make a good impression, and you should be able to get a good deal! ! !
1. When meeting someone for the first time, do not discuss the terms yourself, just make sure to make a good impression.
2. Arrange to meet next time, and if possible, set a date and time.
3. When you meet for the second time, ask the other person their conditions instead of telling them your own.
If daddy liked you, he wouldn't tell you how much you would lose. If your budget is between ● and ▲, there is a high possibility that they will tell you ▲, whichever is higher.
And the key is to listen to your dad's conditions before you tell him your own!If you tell them your conditions here, they often think it's expensive.
Both parties' true feelings are that the father wants to have as little as possible, and the woman wants to have as much as possible.
If your dad asks you about the conditions first, either tell him about the conditions other than the budget, or just ask him about the conditions, even if it's just a parrot. (So that you don't think I'm being expensive by telling you my conditions)
If the price is lower than the market price, negotiation starts now! !
There are some dads who don't know the market price, but there are many who do.
Instead of denying, saying things in a sarcastic or harsh way, say, ``The market price is ●, so I'd like you to give me ●,'' and let's tell them the market price from below! ! !
It is not rude to ask for the market price even if the conditions do not match.
Some dads will haggle, so listen to the other person's conditions before your own! !
I hope you all meet wonderful fathers (^_−)−☆
